About me...

Since 1992 I have started and sold a variety of businesses – from pubs, commercial cleaning company, investment and finance to high end glamping and more.

Whilst forging a successful entrepreneurial career, I turned into a version of myself that I thought I needed to be. I pushed myself daily like we all do to achieve the success that we crave. Nothing was going to stop me. Each day I would push on through, I had always found a way, taking body blow after body blow working all hours.

I projected a persona that was bigger and better, suggesting life was even more awesome and more successful than it really was. And whilst to the outside world, I was successful materialistically, I wore a mask for years becoming a version of myself that I grew to dislike.

I wanted to change and knew there was more to life than the watches, cars and bigger houses; but I couldn’t break the cycle which led to me hiding behind drink and drugs. I was lost.. Alone in a marriage that wasn’t working anymore and questioning what the rest of my life was going to look like.

This was not the story I planned.
Then my world imploded, and I lost everything.

At 40 years of age, I found myself divorced, burnt out, depressed, with no business, and a life-changing heart condition. I lost everything that I loved and had worked for. I went from earning a healthy six-figure income to zero and having to start again from scratch..

I had spent too many years doing whatever it took to be successful. Taking body blow after body blow. I was young, fit, capable and I could take whatever life threw at me on my quest for success… until one day, I couldn’t.

I vowed from then on to do all I could to be a better man.

To take responsibility for who I was and who I wasn’t; I began working on myself through therapy and personal growth. Slowly but consistently – 10 years on and I’ve gone from burnout to on fire.

Having previously trained in martial arts, I was able to find the discipline that I needed to call on. I quit the drink and drugs and focused on the things that worked for me. Fitness and golf have always been my rock, and these are the tools I use today to keep a focused mindset, fill my cup and keep my life on track.

I even learnt how to do the human flag in 120 days for my 50th birthday.

Now with over 200+ hours of coaching and over £60k invested in my own personal growth journey – I am an Internationally Accredited Life Coach and Mentor and now I have turned my mess into my message.

I use my life experiences, learnings and skills to help men like you to write a better midlife story.

About me...

Since 1992 I have started and sold a variety of businesses – from pubs, commercial cleaning company, investment and finance to high end glamping and more.

Whilst forging a successful entrepreneurial career, I turned into a version of myself that I thought I needed to be. I pushed myself daily like we all do to achieve the success that we crave. Nothing was going to stop me. Each day I would push on through, I had always found a way, taking body blow after body blow working all hours.

I projected a persona that was bigger and better, suggesting life was even more awesome and more successful than it really was. And whilst to the outside world, I was successful materialistically, I wore a mask for years becoming a version of myself that I grew to dislike.

I wanted to change and knew there was more to life than the watches, cars and bigger houses; but I couldn’t break the cycle which led to me hiding behind drink and drugs. I was lost.. Alone in a marriage that wasn’t working anymore and questioning what the rest of my life was going to look like.

This was not the story I planned.
Then my world imploded, and I lost everything.

At 40 years of age, I found myself divorced, burnt out, depressed, with no business, and a life-changing heart condition. I lost everything that I loved and had worked for. I went from earning a healthy six-figure income to zero and having to start again from scratch..

I had spent too many years doing whatever it took to be successful. Taking body blow after body blow. I was young, fit, capable and I could take whatever life threw at me on my quest for success… until one day, I couldn’t.

I vowed from then on to do all I could to be a better man.

To take responsibility for who I was and who I wasn’t; I began working on myself through therapy and personal growth. Slowly but consistently – 10 years on and I’ve gone from burnout to on fire.

Having previously trained in martial arts, I was able to find the discipline that I needed to call on. I quit the drink and drugs and focused on the things that worked for me. Fitness and golf have always been my rock, and these are the tools I use today to keep a focused mindset, fill my cup and keep my life on track.

I even learnt how to do the human flag in 120 days for my 50th birthday.

Now with over 200+ hours of coaching and over £60k invested in my own personal growth journey – I am an Internationally Accredited Life Coach and Mentor and now I have turned my mess into my message.

I use my life experiences, learnings and skills to help men like you to write a better midlife story.